public / private

It's been ages since my last notes, always said that in my notes, but I still need special time to write my notes, and it so hard to find one. *sok sibuk*

Hmmm... what i'm going to talk about is something that anyone had experienced before. One or two things that some people do as if they are in private area, but in fact they are in PUBLIC area... Gooshhhh... I hate those type of people...

Minggu siang di salah satu restaurant di Jakarta.......

Memank suasana restoran yg rame membuat kita tamu2 yg baru dateng harus waiting list and wait for a while. After a while waiting, akhirnya nama gw dipanggil lah, While waiting to be seated, ternyata gw ditempatin di meja yg khusus buat 2 org saja, which is one small table with two chairs (for me and my dad). and right behind me the other bunch of people waiting to be seated next to my table which is 4 people.

Then setelah kita duduk, and mereka duduk. Gw lgs mesen makanan, coz bokap udah kelaperan, drpd dy mulai berkicau dan ogah2an sebagai anak yg baik gw lgs pesen makanan. Sembari memilih menu makanan, gw mendengar meja sebelah start to talking, and they're talking in LOUDSPEAKER voice. dan saat itu gw masih memaklumi aja, mgkn mreka belum terbiasa dengan lingkungan sekitarnya. After I finished my order, pelayannya langsung berinisiatif untuk take their order, but guess what, pelayannya ngeliat mereka sedang asik ngomongnya and not pay attention to others, pelayan yg tadinya udah siap take their order malah pergi melayani yg lain. Geez..

After like 5 more minutes, and one of my dishes served, they just started to ordering.... Sambil makan, mereka bukan berhenti ngomong and soften their voice, mereka tetep ngomong dengan kencengnya.. serasa semua org harus denger percakapan "penting" mereka.

Dan setelah terbiasa dengan percakapan "penting nan PELAN" mereka, di dua meja setelah meja kami, ada bapak2 sedang makan beserta keluarganya menerima telpon dengan lebih keras lagi... zzz
Sampai ada moment dimana 1 restoran sunyi sejenak mendengar kekerasan suara bapak itu. What"s in my mind was, how can people do things like this without aware they have people around them??

Pelajaran yg bisa diambil hari ini, please before u act or do something, please pay attention to ur surroundings, either the place, the people, the occasion, or anything. Don't embarrass urself in front of others, maybe if u're in ur families or colleagues it's not a big deal, but if there is a public place when people who don't even know u and respect from ur appearance, but when u act and talk they start being annoyed by u... pay close attention to even smallest thing like this when it comes to ur own impression.
One of my friends said "act like a VIP when u're in a VIP venue, even u're not."


Have a nice Sunday readers,
be good with ur act and personality


cheers,


J . D . K